Learning Empathy from Leprosy

April 16, 2021

Throughout my almost three decades as a Jewish educator, I have learned that there is one irrefutable truth; pre-teens assigned Bar and Bat Mitzvah Torah portions from the Book of Leviticus feel like this is the straw that will break their camel’s back. The burden of studying a foreign language, chanting calligraphic text from a sacred scroll, all under the watchful eye of the community is already stress-inducing. Not to mention, this is occurring during a time when their voices are breaking, hormones are coursing uncontrollably through their changing bodies, and their brains are distracted with unlimited sights and sounds vying for their attention. These factors alone are enough to weigh down a mature adult, much less a disordered, anxious, and self-conscious middle school student. However, for many, the final straw lands when they must write a speech that attempts to reflect upon, and draw out a meaningful lesson from, the weekly parashah. Over the years I have seen my fair share of tears shed by the overwhelmed youngsters when they begin to read some of these unforgiving texts.

“Seriously?” is usually the first response. “What the…!” is often a second; and a slightly less pubescent response is often, “What does leprosy have to do with me or the world I know?” This, in fairness, is a legitimate question for a 21st Century teen living in a world where leprosy is not only incredibly rare but is also easily treatable and does not carry the public consequence of becoming socially outcast.

Today many rabbis and biblical scholars interpret the text as symbolic of a spiritual ailment, while others explain it as a metaphor for any easily transmittable disease and how we should behave and treat one another in response. However, this week, while at a virtual professional development conference, presented by the Jewish Federations of North America (JFNA) for Federation employees across the continent, I had the opportunity to hear Rabbi Amichai Lau-Lavie share a wonderfully inciteful interpretation.

Rabbi Amichai reminded the audience of Moses’ first interaction with Gd and his experience at the burning bush (Exodus 4:6-7). It was here that Gd gave Moses a leprous hand followed by immediate healing. This brief example of Gd’s omnipotence is traditionally interpreted as a sign to convince Moses that it truly was Gd speaking to him through the bush. However, Rabbi Amichai presented an alternative perspective on empathy as a powerful and necessary trait for leadership. Giving Moses the leprous hand, if even for a brief instance, provided him with enough personal insight to understand the lessons to be gleaned in this week’s parshah.

But where does that leave the teenager who has not experienced that personal moment with Gd? Or even the adult who has lived a good life of means, with struggles that would be seen as blessings by others less fortunate? How can they experience that “leprous moment” that will provide them the empathy to be there for those in need, or to help provide for those with fewer means?

This week the Jewish Federation of San Antonio Community Crisis Campaign Allocations Committee met for a 7th round of allocations, culminating in the distribution of $523,637 for crisis-related emergency needs requested by our local Jewish agencies and synagogues. 45 unique allocations were distributed to 6 Jewish agencies, 6 synagogues and temples, and 2 regional Jewish camps. The allocations spanned an entire year of critical support from April 6, 2020, through April 14, 2021.

These funds, of over half a million dollars, would not have been possible to distribute if not for the generosity [and empathy] of our community. In particular, we are incredibly grateful to the Blend Family for providing an exceedingly generous $150,000 challenge grant to the campaign, which in turn, generated gifts from numerous donors who made contributions above and beyond their Annual Campaign pledges.

So how does the inexperienced teen and unknowing adult learn this essential lesson? They learn by example. We role model our tradition’s centuries-old values of tzedakah, compassion, and empathy, and as a direct result of these behaviors the Jewish Federation is…


HERE for you.

HERE for our community.

HERE for our Future.


Shabbat shalom,



September 22 – Aseret Yemei Teshuvah


September 15 – The Power of Persistence and Learning

September 8 – All of You

September 1 – A Knowing Heart

August 25 – Commitment to Jewish Literacy

August 18 – Our Time to Self-Reflect

August 11 – Aser Te’aser

August 4 – Consequences of Not Helping Others

July 28 – The Second Comfort

July 21 – Selfless Leaders

July 14 – The Thought Doesn’t Always Count

July 7 – Responding to Our Own Anger

June 30 – There and Here

June 23 – Strength from Unity

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June 9 – Our Light to the Community

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April 28 – Holiness in Repetition

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April 14 – Our Connection to Water

April 5 – Zissen Pesach

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March 24 – Different Levels of Sacrifice

March 17 – Creating Sacred Spaces

March 10 – Not Deciding Is A Decision

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February 17 – A Holy Nation

February 10 – You Cannot Do It Alone

February 3 – One Small Act

January 27 – Pushing Back the Plague of Darkness

January 20 – Three Types of Conflict

January 13 – I am that I am

January 6 – The Journeys We Pursue

December 30 – We are Judeans

December 23 – The Light of our Existence

December 16 – Passing On Wisdom

December 9 – The Company We Keep

December 2 – The Irrelevant One

November 23 – Breaking Bread and Building Relationships

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November 11 – Here I Am

November 4 – A Fabric of Ideologies

October 28 – A Trip to Our Partnership Region

October 19 – Resetting the Journey

October 14 – The Chag

October 4 – Adjusting the Sails


September 30 – From Learning to Teaching

September 23 – The Meaning of LIFE & LEGACY

September 16 – An Understanding Heart

September 9 – Equity vs. Equality

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August 26 – Open! Open Your Hand

August 19 – Making Memories for Generations

August 12 – Kavanah and Kevah

August 5 – An Ethical Will

July 31 –  Communal Responsibility

July 22 – Creating New Beauty

July 15 – Dwell Apart, Together

July 8 – Consequences of Not Listening

July 1 – Two Types of Disagreements

June 24 – Hatikvah

June 17 – Rejoicing in Your Lot

June 10 – Finding Our Peace

June 3 – The Intangible Other Half 

May 27 – Be Part of the Solution

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May 13 – Standing up to Antisemitism

May 6 – Holy Relationships

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April 22 – Happy Earth Day

April 15 – Humor at the Table

April 8 – The Weight of Words

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March 11 – Being Called Out

March 4 -Ukraine Needs Our Help

February 25 – Crisis in Ukraine

February 18 – Counting Half-Shekels

February 11 – Our Jerseys

February 4 – Giving from the Heart 

January 28 – Treating Others With Kindness

January 21 – Feeling Without Experiencing

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January 7 – Seeing in the Dark

December 30 – Change Takes Time

December 23 – To Know Someone

December 17 – Multi-Generational Lessons

December 10 – Choosing Your Attitude

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November 24 – Be an Upstander, Not a Bystander

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November 12 – Jacob’s Ladder

November 5 – Relationships Matter

October 29 – Setting a Higher Standard

October 22 – On Being a Jew

October 15 – Blessed vs. Blessing

October 8 – Granting Trust

October 1 – Stronger Together

September 24 – REPRINT of October 9, 2020 

September 17 – Remember the days of old

September 10 – Ten Days of Teshuvah


September 3 – Our Jewish Peoplehood

August 27 – With all thy might

August 20 – Remembering to Forget

August 13 – The Trees of the Field

August 6 – The Mission of Maintaining the Roads

July 30 – Two Ears and One Mouth

July 23 – Antisemitism From All Sides

July 16 – The Greatest Threat

July 9 – Oxymorons and Echo Chambers

July 2 – The Impact of Today’s Decisions

June 25 – Or Lagoyim: A Light Unto the Nations

June 18 – Remembering Rabbi Aryeh Scheinberg z”l

June 11 – Equity, Equality, and Investing in Our Future Leaders 

June 4 – An Optimist’s Perspective

May 28 – The Gathering of Feathers

May 21 – We Must be Proactive

May 14 – Here for Israel

May 7 – Behar Behukotai

April 30 – Lessons From My Saba

April 23 – Kedushah: Rising to Holiness

April 16 – Learning Empathy from Leprosy

April 9 – Finding Our Collective Hope

April 2 – Prayer Without Action is Simply Empty Noise

March 26 – Chag Pesach…

March 19 – First They Came For…

March 12 – A Prayer for Healing

March 5 – Combatting Antisemitism

February 26 – A Story Without Supernatural Miracles

February 19 – Federation is Here

February 12 – The Three Definitions of “Shemah”

February 5 – One Nation with One Purpose

January 29 – Prayer, Action, and Perspective

January 22 – Texas Holocaust Remembrance Week

January 15- The Role of Our Tent 

January 8 – Shemot

December 31 – Chazak, chazak, v’nitchazak!

December 25 – A “Community-First” Approach

December 18 – Dreaming in Color: Dreaming & Planning for Our Community

December 11 – The Big Room

December 4 – Wrestling with Our Angels

November 25 – The People Who Give Thanks

November 20 – We are the Toldot

November 13 – Your Personal Life and Legacy

November 6 – The Value of Calm and Reflection

October 30 – We Must Come Together

October 23 – For Hope For Humanity

October 16- The Good and the Very Good 

October 9 – The True Celebration of Simhat Torah

October 2 – The Festival of Ingathering

September 25 – The Two Goats and Yom Kippur

September 18 – The 10 Days of Awe


September 11 – Be Strong and Courageous

September 4 – Acknowledging Good

August 28 – Embracing Multiple Perspectives 

August 21 – Recalibrating in the month of Elul

August 14 – A Blessing and A Curse 

August 7 – A Good Name and A Good Reputation

July 31 – Comfort, Comfort My Nation

July 24 – Words Have Power

July 17 – Our Hope and Promise for the Future

July 10 – It Shall be for You and Your Descendants After You

July 2 – The Indescribable Bond of a Community

June 26- Jewish Wisdom from Our Community and the Torah

June 19- Milk and Honey

June 12- The Next Chapter

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